You're invited
Join us in the English countryside for a four-day Divinely Untamed retreat.
A slow, immersive sanctuary where the noise of expectation softens, and something more honest can emerge. Where the body is listened to, beauty becomes devotion, and connection is met without masks.
This is a space to return to yourself, and to be met, fully, by others.
Reclaim the divinity in all that you are.
The Heart of the Experience
24-27th July 2026, Devon, UK
This retreat offers a carefully held space to explore embodiment, sensation, and connection at a pace that allows depth to unfold naturally. Within a clear and consensual container, participants are invited to engage with movement, touch, ritual, and relational practice as pathways into greater aliveness.
Pleasure is welcomed as a natural expression of life force, alongside tenderness, vulnerability, and power. Rather than pushing toward intensity, the emphasis is on presence, choice, and nervous system safety, allowing each person to meet their experience honestly.
The result is often a deeper trust in the body, clearer boundaries, and a renewed capacity to feel and receive life.
What to Expect
Deep inner work
Time and space to meet patterns, soften old defences, and reconnect with parts of yourself that are ready to be felt, integrated, and lived from.
Sacred ritual & Temple practice
Guided Temple spaces and rituals that explore presence, intimacy, and energetic polarity within a clear, consensual, and well-held container.
Embodiment & somatic exploration
Practices rooted in movement, sensation, voice, and awareness, supporting a deeper relationship with the body as a source of truth and guidance.
Relational depth & conscious edge
Opportunities to explore desire, boundaries, and connection with honesty and choice. At times this may include elements of conscious kink, approached with care, consent, and emotional intelligence.
Nourishment, rest & nature
Wholesome meals, spacious land, and unstructured time to rest, integrate, and be held by the environment.
A supportive group field
A small, intimate group held in a culture of respect, accountability, and shared humanity, where you’re not asked to perform, fix, or be anything other than present.
Integrity of the space
Creating Sacred Space
Our rituals are held within a carefully curated and inclusive environment where consent, boundaries, and mutual respect are foundational. Guided by experienced facilitators, each ritual is thoughtfully shaped to support safety, presence, and choice, allowing participants to explore sensation, connection, and expression with integrity and without judgment.
Celebrating Divinity
At the heart of our rituals is a reverence for life force in all its expressions. Whether meeting yourself in solitude, connecting one-to-one, or engaging within the group field, each moment is an invitation to honour the sacredness of being alive and to embody yourself more fully & truthfully. Pleasure, presence, and devotion are met as natural expressions of an integrated human experience.
Support & Guidance
Your journey is supported by seasoned facilitators, including Adam Slawson, a transformational coach who offers grounded emotional support for navigating triggers and deepening self-awareness. Additional teachers contribute workshops across a range of themes, allowing the group to explore relational, somatic, and energetic layers with depth and care.
This is a brave space: a safer space that encourages you to lean into your edges and slightly stretch your comfort zone.
Who Should Attend
Attendees are not required to be experienced Temple goers. However, they must be:
Fluent in consent
Boundary-aware for self and others
Self-Responsible
Good communicators
Aware of their emotional landscape
Open-hearted and grounded in presence
Although engaging in sacred intimacy can be extremely helpful at healing traumas, this event may not be suitable to participants who have sexual trauma they haven’t processed yet. That being said, all emotions are welcomed as long as they are navigated with emotional awareness and maturity.
The Setting
Held in place, land, and time
This retreat offers the rare opportunity to be held within the same temple container for three full nights, allowing depth, trust, and connection to unfold gradually rather than being rushed.
Set in the Devon countryside, the land is quiet, spacious, and surrounded by nature, with a tranquil lake and generous outdoor space supporting rest, integration, and presence.
There is time to connect, to be alone, to share meals, to move slowly, and to let relationships and insights settle naturally within a nurturing and grounded environment.
SHARED OR PRIVATE ROOMS
(single & double beds)
Thoughtful
communal areas
Shared spaces
for meals
SURROUNDED
BY NATURE
Nourishment
If you’ve been to our events before, you’ll know our love for beauty extends to the spaces we host you in, the way we gather, and the nourishment we share.
Your ticket includes wholesome, organic meals served three times a day, comfortable accommodation, and our signature temple spread at each evening temple — thoughtfully prepared as part of the ritual, inviting slowness, presence, and sensory pleasure.
This allows you to fully immerse yourself in the retreat experience without needing to think about logistics, meals, or care.
Practical Details
Dates: 24th-27th July 2026
Starting time: 24th July arrival from 5pm, dinner at 7pm, Opening ceremony at 8:30pm.
Closing: Breakfast and closing ceremony at 9am, departure by 1pm on Monday 27th July.
Location: Selgars Mill Retreat Center, Devon
Food: 3 organic, high quality vegetarian meals a day, temple bites in the evening, tea & coffee available all day.
Accommodation: 4 days & 3 nights in shared accommodation. Some single beds, some double beds. Rooms will be shared by same sex individuals.
Contact the team at [email protected] for any other questions.
MEET THE FOUNDER
Hey, I'm Jess!
I create portals where people can finally exhale, where they are reminded of who they are beneath the shame, fear, and conditioning. Portals where the body becomes the temple, intimacy becomes truth, and love becomes something lived rather than longed for.
I was sexualised as a teen, and shamed for it
And after years of hiding, suppressing and outsourcing my pleasure, I’ve been on a journey to reclaim the parts of myself I was taught to hide. That journey took me from the glittering Kyabakura clubs of Japan to the underground sex parties of London. These places became mirrors for my own liberation. I’ve walked the edges of desire, vulnerability, and power to understand how to hold others through their own awakening.
Two Decades of Embodied Practice
I am now a Priestess in training, an ISTA graduate, and a lifelong student of polarity, intimacy, and energy. I bring nearly two decades of experiential practice into every space I curate. My work blends tantra, temple arts, and emotional alchemy with fierce compassion and deep energetic awareness.
Holding the Edge Between Shadow & Light
To truly see the light, we must first be willing to meet the darkness. These spaces are powerful because they invite the full spectrum of human experience: the rage, the grief, the longing, the joy. We welcome the truth of who we really are beneath the masks and conditioning.
At Divinely Untamed, everything is welcome — every feeling, every truth, every part of you. These spaces invite raw authenticity, where masks fall away and what’s real can finally be seen. Participants describe them as life-changing: spaces where they feel safe enough to soften, to feel, and to be fully themselves. Through this work, people reclaim their bodies, voices, and hearts, leaving more alive, more honest, and more free.
Divinely Untamed was born as a sanctuary for those ready to reclaim their power and return to their essence, where beauty, ritual, and presence become pathways to freedom.
The facilitators
Adam Slawson
Adam Slawson is a Frequency Mentor and founder of Plight Club. He is an ISTA graduate, author, facilitator, and speaker who, through his fifteen-year journey into Eastern disciplines and Quantum physics, empowers people to trust themselves when it matters to: master vulnerability, open their hearts, and build authentic intimacy with themselves and others.
At Divinely Untamed Temple Nights, Adam serves as a grounding masculine presence and emotional support throughout the evening. He holds space with compassion and clarity, guiding participants through gentle yet powerful emotional inquiries that help them meet themselves more deeply. He invites people to look honestly within to explore the layers of conditioning, pain, shame, and protection that stand between them, raising their vibration and their fulfilment.
Claire Fox
Claire Fox is an Intimacy & Conscious Kink facilitator with over a decade of experience working at the intersection of kink, conscious sexuality, and embodied transformation. Her work is rooted in lived experience, self-inquiry, and a deep respect for consent, nervous system safety & relational integrity.
Claire weaves storytelling, experiential practice, and compassionate presence to create spaces where people can explore desire, power, and vulnerability with clarity and choice. She is particularly attuned to how shame, repression, and unspoken longing live in the body, and how conscious exploration can become a pathway to healing, self-trust, and liberation.
Her facilitation invites participants to meet the full spectrum of their desires, not to perform or transgress, but to listen more honestly, play with awareness, and expand their capacity for pleasure, intimacy, and authenticity in ways that feel grounded and sustainable.
Jo Barrett-Miles
Jo Barrett-Miles is a tantric chef whose work sits at the intersection of nourishment, ritual, and sensory experience. With a deep understanding of how food can support embodiment and connection, she creates meals that are both grounding and expansive, designed to be received slowly and shared within the rhythm of the retreat.
Jo works with texture, colour, scent, and flavour to craft thoughtfully prepared meals that engage the senses without overwhelming them. Her approach honours food as more than sustenance: it becomes part of the container, supporting rest, pleasure, and attunement throughout the retreat.
Each meal is prepared with care and intention, allowing participants to feel held, nourished, and deeply met through the simple, human act of eating together.
Testimonials
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"I feel like my soul upgraded"
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“The most heavenly evening seeped in majesty, Eros, and presence. Jess and her team held the space impeccably, offering tools for both vulnerability and stretching of comfort zones.”
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“The evening felt like warm chocolate sauce dripping from my chin. With communication at the forefront, you are in the safest hands in the safest of spaces.”
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“I really appreciate the emphasis on tuning in and really checking with self before consenting to anything. I really struggle to do this so the regular reminders really helped me to stay anchored in what I wanted.”
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“Wonderfully held space. The participants were perfect. It was a very safe space. Having Adam there to support was incredible and Jess was the most beautiful free spirit.”
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“Amazingly powerful to be held in these safe spaces, especially as a female (and the mother of a young girl). These environments are so key : )”
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For the one who knows there is more
You’ve always known there was more: more depth, more aliveness, more truth. Beneath the layers of fear and conditioning, something inside you has been whispering: there’s another way to live. The Untamed path isn’t about becoming someone new; it’s about remembering who you already are.
This work is for those who are ready to meet themselves fully, to stop running from the discomfort and instead let it be the doorway home. The parts you’ve hidden or shamed are not the problem; they’re the key. When you let them be seen, everything changes.
The moment you say yes to this journey, you begin to soften into your own power. The stories start to dissolve, the walls begin to melt, and your truth starts to move through you again. This is where you reclaim your voice, your body, your heart, and finally feel what it means to be free.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is a Temple Night?
Temple nights are guided, ritual-based spaces focused on presence, consent, embodiment, and relational honesty. Within the retreat, Temple evenings are held as part of a larger, slower container that allows trust, safety, and depth to build over time. They are not performative spaces, and nothing is ever required or expected of you beyond what you consciously choose.
Do I need any experience to attend?
No prior experience is needed, but an awareness of consent and boundaries is essential. It’s important that you can communicate your boundaries, desires, and any need for support clearly. In this space, we each take full responsibility for how we show up, our emotions, our triggers, and our capacity to be supported. The Temple is a brave space that invites you to lean into your edges, stretch your comfort zone, and grow into more capacity, courage, and empowerment.
What should I bring?
You’ll receive a more detailed welcome guide closer to the retreat. In general, we recommend bringing comfortable clothes, layers for different weather, something you feel good moving and resting in, personal toiletries, and a notebook or journal. You’re welcome to bring small personal or ritual items if they support your process, though nothing specific is required.
Is it a s€x party?
No. This retreat is not a sex party, and sexual activity is never expected or required. The work focuses on presence, consent, embodiment, and relational awareness. While themes of desire, intimacy, and life force may be explored, everything is held within clear boundaries, choice, and respect for each individual’s pace.
Can I come alone?
Absolutely. Most people come solo, and many say they leave feeling more connected than ever. You’ll be gently introduced to others in the space, with opportunities to connect at a pace that feels right for you.
Can I get a refund or transfer my ticket?
Due to the nature of this retreat and the costs involved in securing the venue, accommodation, food, and facilitation, we are unable to offer refunds.
If your plans change, you may transfer your place to another Divinely Untamed retreat up to two weeks before the start date, subject to availability.
You may also transfer your place to another person, provided they complete the application process and are approved. Transfers must be arranged no later than two weeks before the retreat.
Within two weeks of the retreat start date, all bookings are final and non-transferable.
We strongly recommend taking out personal travel insurance to cover unexpected circumstances.
How can I contact you if I have questions?
You can reach Jess directly at [email protected] or via WhatsApp at +44 7523 714060. She’ll be happy to support you with any questions about preparation, accessibility, or anything else you need to feel ready for the evening.
Testimonials
“Wonderfully curated event that helped me feel safe to gently and playfully connect with others.”
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“Genuinely wanted to share my gratitude to you both - you are clearly experienced and bring authenticity 100% of the way. This is the best and fastest growth I’ve ever experienced in such a short space of time. Rapid transformation"
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“The perfect level of inner challenge, whilst being guided with love and compassion. All scenarios are welcome - thank Goddess.”
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