The
Pleasure
Lab 3.0
Stop abandoning yourself for the life, love and intimacy you want.
14 days to trust your desires, honour your boundaries and show up more fully in your relationships and your life.
Start: 12th October 2026 | Investment: £55
The Invitation
This is a 14-day challenge for people who are tired of knowing what they should do differently, then catching themselves in the same patterns when real life happens.
Saying “I don’t mind” when you do.
Saying “no, I’m good” when you’re not.
Holding back what you really want.
Overriding the subtle no in your body.
Waiting for other people to guess what you need.
Making yourself smaller, easier, more agreeable, then wondering why something still doesn’t feel right.
Over 14 days, you’ll start catching those moments as they’re happening and experimenting with something different.
Feeling what you actually want, saying the thing, asking.
Receiving, saying no, letting yourself be seen, choosing your pace.
Staying with yourself when another person enters the picture.
Just enough to discover what becomes possible when you stop abandoning yourself in the moments that matter.
Because the more you trust what you feel, honour what you want and act from what’s actually true, the more your relationships, and your life, begin to feel like they belong to you.
What this is
The Pleasure Lab is a simple, intimate space to start shifting how you show up in real-life moments and bring more pleasure into your life.
Each day, you’ll receive a short voice note from me.
Some will feel like a mirror, some might feel uncomfortable. Some will land in a way that makes things click.
But this isn’t just about noticing. It’s about catching yourself in the moment and experimenting with something different.
The work happens in your body, your conversations, your relationships and your everyday life.
You'll learn to:
• Pause just before saying “I don’t mind” when you actually do
• Notice what you want before automatically dismissing, suppressing or talking yourself out of it
• Catch the subtle no in your body and honour it
• Let yourself receive something you want instead of deflecting it
• Say what’s true instead of editing yourself to make it easier for someone else
• Ask for things you’d usually talk yourself out of asking for
• Notice when you’re rushing, chasing, withdrawing or abandoning your own pace
• Let yourself be seen, even when it feels edgy or uncomfortable
• Stay connected to yourself while being affected by someone else
• Feel where you’re met — and where you’re not
The transformation
• You know what you actually want and trust yourself enough to choose it
• You stop overriding yourself in the moments that matter
• You feel more confident asking, receiving, saying no and being seen
• You stay connected to yourself when intimacy gets real
• Your relationships feel clearer, deeper and more satisfying
• You stop holding yourself back and start experiencing more of what you want
• Pleasure, joy and aliveness become something you actually experience, not just wish for
This is for you if:
You often go along with what others want... then feel off after.
You know what you want but don’t always trust yourself to follow it.
You hold back to avoid being “too much” or inconvenient.
You find yourself overriding your desires, boundaries or needs.
You want to feel more confident expressing yourself in real time.
You’re ready to see what changes when you stop abandoning yourself.
The Container
Start date: 12th October
Duration: 14 days
• Daily private voice notes delivered via Telegram
• 3 live Zoom calls (opening, mid-point, closing)
• 14 days of real-life awareness + action
You can listen to the voice notes at anytime.
Live calls are recorded if you can’t attend but there's a strong recommendation to attend live to get the most of it.
Live Calls
Opening Call: 12th October, 6-7 pm
Mid-point call: 19th October, 6-7 pm
Closing call: 26th October, 6-7 pm
The Investment
£55
Hey,
I'm Jess
I’m the founder of Divinely Untamed. My work sits at the intersection of intimacy, desire, power and sovereignty, exploring the territories we inhabit within ourselves and what happens when they meet another.
It’s rooted in lived experience, years of holding Temple spaces where real relational dynamics unfold, and a lifelong fascination with landscapes, borders, power, movement and the ways we find our place within them.
I’m interested in the moments where we lose ourselves, find ourselves, cross a threshold, let someone in, hold a boundary, surrender, choose... and what it takes to stay connected to ourselves through all of it.
In a nutshell...
Facilitator and space holder working with desire, power, relational exploration and initiation
Deep understanding of the patterns people repeat in intimacy and what actually shifts them
Trusted guide for integration before and after temple and retreat experiences
Devoted to grounded, embodied work that translates into real life, not just peak moments
Testimonials
"Jess is incredible at creating and holding a space that is both sensual and supportive!"
"Engaging journey through a challenging subject, held by an experienced practitioner"
"I feel like my soul upgraded! I would recommend this to anybody"
"Jess didn't labour points, she made it funny, she talked about hard things, confidently and easily.”
“The perfect level of inner challenge, whilst being guided with love and compassion."
"This is the best and fastest growth I’ve ever experienced in such a short space of time."
Why This?
Because many of us have learned to choose connection and belonging over our own aliveness and authenticity.
So we override what we feel, dismiss what we want, hold ourselves back and lose touch with ourselves in the moments that matter.
This space exists to change that. By catching those moments in real time and choosing differently.
You’ll learn to trust what you feel, honour what you want and stay connected to yourself, creating more honest relationships and more pleasure, freedom and aliveness in your life.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to interact with others?
No. This is an individual journey held in a shared field.
Is this s€xual or explicit?
No. It works with desire and erotic charge, but it’s grounded, mature, and clothes-on.
What if I miss a live call?
All calls are recorded.
Will this lead into other offerings?
This is only the beginning. There will be options to continue and deepen the work.
This container is for those willing to be honest with themselves,
and see what happens when they are.
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